Question for the reader what can you do or have been doing to keep yourself more confident throughout your day. Or are you naturally self-confident and are good in that area. Thank you for commenting and have a great day or night.
I recently started reading Nathaniel Branden PH.D book entitled The Power Of Self-Esteem. I am interested in his formula which is
Self-Esteem=Success
Pretensions
First I would like to attempt to define self-esteem, success and pretensions. Self-Esteem to me is the ability to be confident in myself. Confident in my abilities, my strengths, my weakness and goals. To produce the outcome that I am confident enough to show my product to the world and in turn not feeling defeated when someone makes a comment or critiques. My confidence should remain strong and be able to accept the criticism and change my product. Or hear criticism and do absolutely nothing with the product knowing confidently that what I have produce is worthy to be praised and have potential through my own eyes.
Success is achievement that is recognized or unrecognized that usually took work to achieve through many set backs and trails and errors. In the end success is accomplished and is usually praised by the yourself or someone or by something else. Success is also can be considered achieving happiness and being proud of yourself that you were able to overcome when you may have felt like giving up.
Lastly pretensions I am guessing is a plan set in motion that usually requires action to work towards a goal. To take steps in order to achieve your goal.
The formula is a simple formula when looking at it more closely. The number of pretensions divided by the success you have from those prestensions equals levels of self esteem.
More of a break down the more time you devote on planning and taking the time to get your goals done are small achievements. That later on become a persons successes that have levels of boosters to your confidence aka your self esteem. Which in turn strengths your abilities making you feel more confident and happy about your success and the steps it took you to get there.
Scenario 1 Cars
To the journey towards self esteem starts with a clear focused goal this goal is what you love to do that your proud of completing.
Examples of prenetisions are goal setting like steps to learn something about cars you would have to take action meaning buying the books to study. Buying a model of several cars to be able to physically hold each part of the car in your hand. Taking a test to see if you master your knowledge about the car. Then getting a job as a mechanic or sales person or own your own car shop. Then hire people to help you sell cars and fix them up. Then making some money from the car sells. Then once enough money is brought in think about expanding your brand or logo to different parts of the area or towns. Then put ads in the newspaper for people to see what you have to offer. Customers will start to come by your shop and be interested in the things you have to offer in your dealership. Now you have a name those customers will talk about your dealership. You might even have a product that you set for a million dollars. Within hours it is sold from someone who believes they can benefit from your new invention. Now you create another product that you sell globally online . Now everyone wants your product around the world your name is in the newspaper you have now achieved your prentenions your goals your steps to to become successful.
Each prentensison I mentioned is a success when you look back on your work you can say to your self. O wow I did this on this date and I achieved this too in such short time. Or look how many sales took place on this date. Look we were in the newspaper in early 2000s now our company is a global success.
After the prentensions and success comes the self esteem. But I must stress to you are a success if you have goals and you accomplished some them or all of them . The goal I think is for everyone to continue to set goals and set dreams, create and have fun. Have fun in your journey always strive to be better in your own eyes. Be happy with yourself give yourself credit and everything you have accomplished makes you already a success story. Knowing your success story gives you the confidence to know hey I am going to be alright and I am worthy.
I recently started reading Nathaniel Branden PH.D book entitled The Power Of Self-Esteem. I am interested in his formula which is
Self-Esteem=Success
Pretensions
First I would like to attempt to define self-esteem, success and pretensions. Self-Esteem to me is the ability to be confident in myself. Confident in my abilities, my strengths, my weakness and goals. To produce the outcome that I am confident enough to show my product to the world and in turn not feeling defeated when someone makes a comment or critiques. My confidence should remain strong and be able to accept the criticism and change my product. Or hear criticism and do absolutely nothing with the product knowing confidently that what I have produce is worthy to be praised and have potential through my own eyes.
Success is achievement that is recognized or unrecognized that usually took work to achieve through many set backs and trails and errors. In the end success is accomplished and is usually praised by the yourself or someone or by something else. Success is also can be considered achieving happiness and being proud of yourself that you were able to overcome when you may have felt like giving up.
Lastly pretensions I am guessing is a plan set in motion that usually requires action to work towards a goal. To take steps in order to achieve your goal.
The formula is a simple formula when looking at it more closely. The number of pretensions divided by the success you have from those prestensions equals levels of self esteem.
More of a break down the more time you devote on planning and taking the time to get your goals done are small achievements. That later on become a persons successes that have levels of boosters to your confidence aka your self esteem. Which in turn strengths your abilities making you feel more confident and happy about your success and the steps it took you to get there.
Scenario 1 Cars
To the journey towards self esteem starts with a clear focused goal this goal is what you love to do that your proud of completing.
Examples of prenetisions are goal setting like steps to learn something about cars you would have to take action meaning buying the books to study. Buying a model of several cars to be able to physically hold each part of the car in your hand. Taking a test to see if you master your knowledge about the car. Then getting a job as a mechanic or sales person or own your own car shop. Then hire people to help you sell cars and fix them up. Then making some money from the car sells. Then once enough money is brought in think about expanding your brand or logo to different parts of the area or towns. Then put ads in the newspaper for people to see what you have to offer. Customers will start to come by your shop and be interested in the things you have to offer in your dealership. Now you have a name those customers will talk about your dealership. You might even have a product that you set for a million dollars. Within hours it is sold from someone who believes they can benefit from your new invention. Now you create another product that you sell globally online . Now everyone wants your product around the world your name is in the newspaper you have now achieved your prentenions your goals your steps to to become successful.
Each prentensison I mentioned is a success when you look back on your work you can say to your self. O wow I did this on this date and I achieved this too in such short time. Or look how many sales took place on this date. Look we were in the newspaper in early 2000s now our company is a global success.
After the prentensions and success comes the self esteem. But I must stress to you are a success if you have goals and you accomplished some them or all of them . The goal I think is for everyone to continue to set goals and set dreams, create and have fun. Have fun in your journey always strive to be better in your own eyes. Be happy with yourself give yourself credit and everything you have accomplished makes you already a success story. Knowing your success story gives you the confidence to know hey I am going to be alright and I am worthy.
No comments:
Post a Comment